View Full Version : racial descrimination (might seem racial if you are of color)
Nov 17, 2004, 11:44 PM
ok...this is rather serious...i was in third hour yesterday and we were watchin a movie(pirates of the carribean if it matters not) and i got an uneven chair and started squeaking it[rocking back-forth] and this pissed everyone off so they all started yellin and screamin at me...and then this black(not saying racially) girl went all ballitoc on me...then after 7th hour....i was walking passed her and said "fat black b*tch" so she threw her books down chased after me and grabbed me by the neck pansy punched,slapped twice,choked me half-to-death,and threw my books across the hall!...then today at school she went and told the counselor that i had called her a "nigger b*tch"..which everyone of the witnesses said no to!..then she tried to make it look like i wrote her threatening letters and on one she(or someone) wrote "will you go out with me" ok this might seem bad but...then i got called into the disciplanary director and he wanted me to clearify what i said to her so i said to him when he asked me if i said"nigger" i said flatout "NO!" he said "well in my mind i look at you and see this happening to you by mistake...well i think the statement "black" is gonna get you outta school suspension (sure enough it did) but if you had said"nigger" you would probably had been expeled or longer suspension but if you had just said "b*tch" and not "black b*tch" you would have just got a couple days CC(confined classroom-in school suspension) "
Nov 17, 2004, 11:59 PM
Hmm, seems like an ego rearing it's ugly head. People think they are big shit in this world. Fact, they arent. You aren't. The girl you said derogitory(sp?) remarks to isn't. People seem to go on this power trip that they are the best, and they have the most power. If others seem different, or that they have different opinions and views.
Boom, Prejudice and Hatred.
It's complete BS if you ask me, if you wanna call a woman a "Nigger" (yeah, ill say it without those shitty *'s) or a "Bitch", it's your call. Honestly, it's nothing I would do, then again, if people yell at me, I yell right back.
Nov 18, 2004, 12:14 AM
Uh... and to think all of this commotion spawned from chair squeaking?
Next time, don't squeak your chair while people are trying to watch a movie. Some people have violent tendencies whenever they're interrupted during a movie. And afterward, don't carry it on (you saying 'fat black bitch' wasn't really the right thing to do, now was it?). That's all I can say about this, because it seems to me that you brought it upon yourself.
Nov 18, 2004, 12:23 AM
She thinks she's all that, i would know. During band she is the "teacher" during any class she thinks she "rules" everyone.... I don't like her, personally, but she is too stuck up for how many friends she has (like 3)...but i shall not comment anymore because it might lead to trouble.
Nov 18, 2004, 12:24 AM
I'm sorry to say this, Ben, but you should've known better. People will use everything you say against you, especially stuff that could be taken as hateful prejudice to people without a level head. Now try and learn something from this ordeal, mmkay?
Nov 18, 2004, 02:00 PM
you put yourself in this situation! all i did was state the TRUTH! she was black and she was a freagin bitch....my point is she didn't get but an off telling which is much less than what i got thats TRULY BS....and that bitch shelby riedel,alison butbarger,jessica huff,kayla huff,and all here fugin bitches took my girlfriend by the hair slammed her against the lockers!...now angel is moving to kendalville her mom is pressing charges against their parents..and none of this mentioned above would have happened if i was at school today......i swear to jesus christ himself i will have my revenge........
and i found out that mistifer faggot i mean willard didn't tell Dr Rusch(overall prin.) that she hit me and fugin choked me.....would you be pissed if this happened to you!
Nov 18, 2004, 04:07 PM
Now you're just being stupid. Revenge gets you nothing, period. if you wanna go get your little revenge, go ahead, you'll get a punishment worse than detention.
Beatrix the Goddess
Nov 18, 2004, 04:25 PM
Well don't get the idea that there wasn't any fault on your side. Firstly; I don't blame her for getting annoyed at you squeaking your chair. I don't know how old you are but if you're above 12 you really should have learnt better by now. Secondly; you shouldn't have followed it up by insulting her when you were in the wrong in the first place. Thirdly; I can throw insults as well as the next person, I agree that sometimes its' justified, but you shouldn't ever insult someone with something they can't help.That goes for things like color, race or disability. Why use the word "black" to insult her? I'm not surprised that she took it badly because its' obvious you were using it in a derogatory way, which was wrong. And it reflects badly on you too; you couldn't find anything else to insult her with, so you resorted to her colour? Makes it seem like you didn't have much reason to have a go at her. It's all very well to have racial views, but you need to learn to express them more diplomatically before you express them at all.
On the other hand...I'm afraid it's true that people will use any remotest sniff of a racial insult to get as much as they can. And that's not right either, and can blow things completely out of proportion, and it sounds like that's what's happened here, unfortunately. As it is, I think the best thing you can do is not make more of an issue of it, and let it blow over. Apologise if necessary. Racial issues are really not something that it's wise to get into. Have your opinion by all means...but if you've got something against a particular race, don't blame them for retaliating. Wouldn't you do the same?
Nov 18, 2004, 08:45 PM
no it happens to me all the time....i just ignore it and walk away and give'm the finger..mostly they scream back to me"i don't think i am that kinda person"...no one understands it's not a fugin offer...but i kno i was wrong by squeaking my chair but it's insane how anyone could hear it i mean it was as loud as a tree falling in an abondand forest honestly some people in this world need to stay in shadows..only fight if someone gets all up in your face about shit that ain't true....
Nov 19, 2004, 02:04 AM
One, use fucking punctuation.
Two, theres NO reason to go around yelling profanities at people like that. NO REASON. I hope you got that the second time around.
Third, not everyone needs to "stay in the shadows". That's some crap you hear in shitty rap videos (Go on, defend rap music, i dare you).
Nov 19, 2004, 02:39 AM
yeah right i fucking hate rap music its all about sex and never understand a single damn word! so why would i try to defend it ROCK 100%...it might have benn wrong by my part but i never hit her and she complains that i "hit" her my hands never left my fucking sides! so,yes, there was reason to yell profanities!!!
Beatrix the Goddess
Nov 25, 2004, 04:28 PM
Minion: The phrases "use ing punctuaton" and "no reason to yell profanities" in the same sentence? ;) Caught you there..
But anyway, this is getting petty now. You can debate music in the Entertainment/Literature forum, and there's no point arguing over the finer points of this issue, Benjamin. We're just commenting on the impressions of the event that we've formed. Obviously we weren't there so none of us know exactly what happened, but you'd still be wise to listen to what we have to say. If you want the advice the members can give, then this is it, in a nutshell:
1. Don't squeak your chair and not expect people to be annoyed.
2. Avoid racial insults.
3. Avoid the revenge idea. It won't do you any favours.
4. Don't descend to this 's level and get embroiled in some huge quarrel- it's not worth it; just walk away. If she's exaggerating the situation then calmly state that to whoever is investigating it. Get them to talk to people who wittnessed the event if necessary.
I hope everything works out.
Nov 25, 2004, 04:33 PM
ok...thank you..this has helped all of it has!...thanks everone except minion for the advice especially beatrix thank you!
Nov 26, 2004, 04:50 AM
Angel's moving?! Holy shit....Yeah, you shouldn't have said "Black" in a degrading way, like beatrix said. Racial discrimination makes things much worse than they really are.
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