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Dec 9, 2002, 09:06 PM
Do you think loving a girl even after almost 2 years after losing her is true love?
If you think so should i persue her? I have her number but i don't know what i can possibly say because it's been almost 2 years. I've helped all of my friends with problems to try and block out my feelings but it doesn't work so it's time i help myself for once.
Dec 9, 2002, 09:59 PM
Well, my good friend girlfriends have never really been my strong point, but you didn't need to know that
OK. Try to be serious :P. Uhh I think that you should persue her, becuase if you truly love her you would. And if she truly loves you then obviously she would remember you and want you. So, my answer obviously is call here and try to get in touch :roll: . If you find out that she doesn't like or remember you then it isn't meant to be. So have fun and I hope that it all works out with you and her.
Dec 10, 2002, 12:09 AM
well i think you should try and go after her even after 2 years i think you should. i lost one girl i really loved over 6 years and i still think about her a lot but as luck would have it i got no way to get a hold of her other wise i would but any way i think you should go after her.(sorry for how i am sounding)
Dec 10, 2002, 01:54 AM
remembering a girl you once loved for that long
isn't true love. you just miss / remember her.
but... loving her? I'm impressed gamegod ^_^
you do love her....I envy that girl.
um... talk to her.
first, say stuff like
"long time no see! how are you?"
then later on...
"you're always on my mind _____..."
( fill in the blank! what's her name!? :P )
"So I was just wondering.. would it be OK if I
could court you again?"
DON'T PURSUE HER A DOZEN TIMES IF SHE
REALLY DOESN'T WANT TO YET.
you'll just lose cutie points that way!
and make her angry...
so try our advices ^_^
Beatrix the Goddess
Dec 10, 2002, 04:21 PM
I'd really question whether you actually love her first. If you have feelings for someone, and then they exit your life, you tend to pine after them and subconsciously mould them into your idea of your perfect match, and you forget some of the good or not so good things that made them the way they were. So essentially you end up loving you romanticised idea of the person, rather than the person themselves. It's happened to me so I know it's true. Sorry if that didn't make much sense, I'll try explaining better if you want.
However, if you never contact her you'll never find out whether you really still love her or not. So yes, I'd contact her, but take things slowly. Don't jump in & say "Will you go out with me again?", keep things on the friendship levels until you're sure of your feelings one way or the other. Then it's up to you what you do.
Dec 10, 2002, 09:14 PM
It's all great advice your giving me but im goin to find it a little awkward(i think i spet it wrong lol) read further down the page and you should see why.
And thx for the encouragement dagger:roll:
And don't look so surprised dagger, i am capable of loving people lol
Oh her name is Georgette Ball if people are wanting to know.
Don't worry dagger you WILL find somebody that deserves you but till then just live your life to the fullest. Somebody will come when you least expect it.............
And for people who question whether i truly love her or not, you may not think that it is true love but i love her in a way that i can't really describe well in words. Whenever i sat next to her and talked to her i always had butterflies in my stomach, i was always looking at her and could never imagine a moment without her near me but unfortunately she moved away but she wanted to ask me something i do know what the question was and it was:
"Do you like me? I heard that you did. And well if you do i'd like to tell you something........."
And at the time i was angry at the fact she was moving away and did'nt give her a chance to finish the sentance. And that was the last i ever saw of her.................
Now for nearly 2 years i've been playing with those words in my head thinking of what she was going to say(i know from the sentance what she was going to say looks pretty obvious)but i have been constantly thinking about that moment and why i could'nt have listened to her all the way through. And (i know this sounds sad) i even have that occasional dream about her and it's only the moment i regret played to me over and over again.
So that's me explained and why im a bit hesitant on calling her. And also i know im a lot more fortunate than some people here but i just want to see her again even if it does'nt work out (even though i really would like it to work out and for me to get my well deserved happy ending lol).
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