Suspended

ShimmyDylan7777 · Apr 10, 2005, 11:05 PM

I got suspended from school and for the most lamest reason ever. Ok here's the story. **GOD!**

All my friends were saying I liked this girl Gina, and they just kept saying it, saying it, and saying it. They were also calling me names, I got so anoyed from it all. Then smarti Zach said something and it got me pissed. So then I pushed him hard and he fell then he said "What you do that for!?". The kid Anthony said "Do you like to get pushed!?, then he pushed me. I started to cry a lil, Because everybody was ganging up on me. Almost my entire life I was bullied, thats why I changed schools. Now in this school I am alot popular and have alota friends.I didn't start to cry because Anthony pushed me... well yeah I did, it didn't hurt at all though. I just felt so sad because this is what happened in my old school and I started to remember in the past. Well after that some time passed and I was crying and trying to hold it in so I walked over to this small bench thing and everybody was huddling over me and the lunch aide came over and said "Dylan are you alright? Come on, your coming with me to the school counciler.", I said "No, leave me alone, I don't want to go". So then after some time I went the three kids Ian, Zach, Anthony went too. They were still saying shiit and I got so mad I started to walk out then everybody got me and I came back. WELL!! Had a talk, took a walk with the counciler and all it was really stupit so I said can we go back and then I left.

This news was passed down to the princapal, I was in her office the next day (since she was at a funeral). There was alota kids that got in trouble on the same day as me. My friend Matt (the only person that sticked up for me got suspended too, but for a diff reason). I was the first to call my parents, this was a total lie of what the princapal said to my mom, she said that I had started it, after I pushed him down I called him an asswhole (which is true), gave him the middle finger and said fuck you (those two were deff. not true). So I told the truth to my mom and dad the story then they told me that the princapal suspended me because I didn't listen to the aide (which I didn't want to talk to anybody since I was sad). Now I'm grounded for a week and still am (I sneaked on right now). It feels like this groundedness is forever. What a lame way to exspell someone from school. Adults just never understand and don't listen. My friend Matt is so funny I'll tell you what he did.

He was on his bus to school, this kid was irretating him so he punched him. Then the bus driving said "Sit your ass down and shut the fuck up", he said "No, you shut the fuckup, bitch". He got two day suspensing. By the way, I got one day out. Matt got a bus slip and stuff.

Does Not LIFE SUCK!? It does at times anywayz. This was my longest thing ever and it proply will be for me. WHOA. So alright, what would you do if you ever got in a situation like this? Or did you ever get kicked out of school?

Mikayla · Apr 10, 2005, 11:16 PM

Eh, well. You did kind of start it.

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They were also calling me names, I got so anoyed from it all. Then smarti Zach said something and it got me pissed. So then [B]I pushed him hard and he fell[B]

Don't take this the wrong way. You did start it. You could have ignored them. (as annoying as that is)

Though, it seems that they shouldn't have made fun of you anyway. But Kids are like that in Middle school anyway. Highschool, things get much better and most of the idiots get held back.

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after I pushed him down I called him an asswhole (which is true), gave him the middle finger and said fuck you (those two were deff. not true).

Most teachers and administrators (at school

) are like that. They just don't want to deal with you and just make up crap to get you out of their hair. (I know that you people have to agree with me on this. I'm sure you would do it too)

Next time. Just smile and flip them the bird and go on. You can't really get in trouble because you didn't do jack squat. Either that or just tell a teacher. If they hit you they can get arrested for... something.

Minion · Apr 10, 2005, 11:52 PM

After reading it....

Yeah, you did technically start it.

Anyway.

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Originally Posted by Final_Kid

I was the first to call my parents, this was a total lie of what the princapal said to my mom, she said that I had started it, after I pushed him down I called him an asswhole (which is true), gave him the middle finger and said fuck you (those two were deff. not true). So I told the truth to my mom and dad the story then they told me that the princapal suspended me because I didn't listen to the aide (which I didn't want to talk to anybody since I was sad).

Welcome to school. The principal probabaly heard the story from the kid you pushed, who overexaggerated and such. I'm gonna say here what I tell everyone who thinks life sucks at the moment.

"You think life sucks now? You don't have to pay bills, raise kids, make meals, repair items, look and care ofter people's whims, and so forth. You've got it good. You're not an adult. That's when life sucks. Get over it."

Copied from a rant of mine. Non-edited so, there ya go.

Sujin · Apr 12, 2005, 12:00 AM

ah it sucks to be suspended, whether or not you started it. although, i've never been suspended.

Tallulah · Apr 12, 2005, 08:55 AM

I've been through a similar thing at school, although it was the one and only time I lost my rag, so I only got a 'red ticket,' which technically means f--- all!

You did the right thing by going to a counsellor, but, I'm afraid it's so not right to call the principal an 'arsehole,' no matter how true it may be (The principal at my secondary school was a complete wet blanket, discipline was virtually non-existant when he was in charge).

It is a tough time being at school (I was bullied myself, so I've had some experience). You feel the teachers do nothing, and in nine out of ten cases, that's right. The best thing to do, if you think you are being treated unfairly by a teacher, talk it out with your parents, explain your situation, what happened, and why you think you're being treated unfairly. In the meantime, just keep your cool so you don't get suspended again. Your education is too valuable to waste. Save that for university!

ShimmyDylan7777 · Apr 14, 2005, 12:46 AM

Uhhh, ok...? But how did I start it? I mean I've been bullied my whole life [well almost, pretty much since I started school]. I had so much anger from within, I let it out so I pushed him. I couldn't walk away, and how the hell did I start when they come up with this I like Gina and all the name calling and shit. I'll try not to get suspended again, hopefully. I not even in middle school, where I live they put damn 6th grade in elm. school! Which I was looking forward to a locker so I can put my own cool stuff in it and all. Well anyway just tell me how I started it ALL...

Mikayla · Apr 14, 2005, 01:32 AM

You started it by pushing that kid. They were making fun of you but you pushed them.

Not that I don't blame you. I would push them as well. But you shouldn't have pushed that kid if you didn't want to get in trouble.

Haku · Apr 14, 2005, 03:32 AM

Yes, technically you did start it by pushing that kid, but it was pretty unfair, you were put in a lose-lose situation. If you pushed him you would be in trouble, if you didn't they would make fun of you even more, so either way you lost, so I don't really feel you're to blame all that much, next time probably just ignore them, and they will probably find it's not that fun to make fun of someone when they don't care, or atleast act like it, that's what I do.

Sofa King · Apr 16, 2005, 09:21 AM

I've been in and stopped a bunch of fights when I was in school. A lot of times I let my anger get in the way and it got me in trouble with the school and my parents.

Its all about self-control and how you handle yourself. Some kids are teasing you. It doesn't give you the right to "physically" assault them. Same real life situation that occurred earlier this week in California at a school baseball game where a kid was teasing another student pitcher from another school about losing a game. That pitcher overrated and beat the kid with a baseball bat to death in public!

In school, your classmates can be a bunch of little pricks. Its up to you on how you want to deal with the situation. Best advice I could give you is either stand up for yourself and handle it like a mature person would, or just ignore it. Seems like a group of piss ants who have nothing else to do but think they are all that. Once you let them get to you, and you get suspended from school, who wins in this situation? Once they figure out how to get under your skin, they'll keep on pressing the right buttons to piss you off once again. I don't know what type of person you really are, but its up to you to figure out how you can handle them and your temper.